Category Archives: self

Kubasaki High School Reunion Cruise: part four

In the final part of this four-part blog post about my high school reunion, I reflect upon why my high school classmates should and would want to attend the next reunion. I write this because I struggled against my own … Continue reading

Posted in feedback, personal development, photos, review, self, travel | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Kubasaki High School Reunion Cruise: part two

Funny, every time I type “Kubasaki” WordPress autocorrects it to “Kabuki.” What does Kubasaki mean? I told a stranger that the word came from my last name. He believed me.

Posted in personal development, photos, review, self, travel, writing | Tagged , , , , , , | Comments Off on Kubasaki High School Reunion Cruise: part two

Dad’s favorite songs

The third Sunday in June is declared for Father’s Day, first celebrated in 1910 in the USA but not proclaimed as such until years later. Coincidentally, June 21st is also Summer Solstice, the longest day in the year, and thus a very important milestone for those who … Continue reading

Posted in Chinese, personal development, photos, self, travel | Tagged , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

A song for dad: diamonds and rust

My dad never hesitated to share titles of the songs he loved. In his last years, he took a liking to Youtube. One of his favorite singers was Joan Baez.

Posted in personal development, review, self, sheet music, travel | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Classical guitar: intimate, personal, and vulnerable

There is something intimate, personal, and vulnerable about sharing a space with a musician — unplugged. Such is the case of experiencing the classical guitar, which is a rare thing on Maui. Once a year Ben Verdery draws students and … Continue reading

Posted in course, personal development, photos, self, travel | Tagged , , , , , , , , | Comments Off on Classical guitar: intimate, personal, and vulnerable

The two Cs

My dad warned me about the two Cs when I was leaving home for college. “Beware of chemistry,” he said.

Posted in feedback, personal development, photos, self, travel, Uncategorized, writing | Tagged , , , , , , , | Comments Off on The two Cs

Shock via social media

News travels fast on social media, particularly shocking news about death.  Initially it goes like this: “Have you heard?” “Did you know?”

Posted in personal development, self, writing | Tagged , , | Comments Off on Shock via social media

Biggest Fan

When she suddenly realizes that she has lost her biggest fan, she feels lost.

Posted in personal development, self | Tagged , , , | 1 Comment

Saying no and letting go

The reading at the end of two-hour workshop on bereavement resonated with me. I finally understood the meaning of letting go. And with that, the need to say no. She let go. She let go.

Posted in personal development, self | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Dad said Confucius says

When I read past e-mails from my father, I often envision a Confucian scholar. He wrote like one. His words were not spontaneous but deliberate. The writing itself is from another era.

Posted in self, writing | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on Dad said Confucius says